Damn bullies

There are several bullies that harass me by saying "Spongbob" loudly at me, due to the fact that I'm not a big fan of that show (I now hate it because of all of that harassment). These bastards are presistant, always harassing me even when I ignored them. When I tell them on the teacher/principal, I assumed that they lied their way out of trouble, denying their abnoxious behavior, even with evidence from videos and pictures taken from my phone, though one stopped doing that, but the others, I believe, still continue harassing me.

I am on the verge to hurting them. Hard. Please give me advice before I get vioent with them.

This may not be the best advice, but they're probably still harassing you because you're giving them reactions that they want. If you ignore them and don't react to what they're doing, they might eventually leave you alone. That's what I had to do when I was practically tortured in elementary. I ignored them and avoided them long enough that they eventually left me alone.

Have you talked to your counselor about this?

Ugh, I AM getting tired of hearing that I should ignore them. IGNORING. DOESN'T. WORK. Standing up against them is more preferable than just ignoring them.

Sometimes yes. Other times no. It depends on the situation. You just have to be stubborn and keep at it until they give up. Find your friends . . . stay close to them. Chances are they'll back you up if the bullies come around again. You just have to stay strong and keep your head up.

Don't give in.

Like Trixie, Elementary school was a nightmare hell-hole. But I stayed close to my 'friends' and the bullies left me alone for the time being.

Ephah wrote:

Sometimes yes. Other times no. It depends on the situation. You just have to be stubborn and keep at it until they give up. Find your friends . . . stay close to them. Chances are they'll back you up if the bullies come around again. You just have to stay strong and keep your head up.

Don't give in.

Like Trixie, Elementary school was a nightmare hell-hole. But I stayed close to my 'friends' and the bullies left me alone for the time being.

If you use this advise, make sure the friends you stick close to aren't the super possessive type. They might try to seriously injure anyone who picks on you if they are.

Yesterday, I've found out who was the ringleader behind all of this: some big guy named Michael. Apparently, he got into trouble for telling other people to harass me. If he does this again, then he'll be expelled.

And Lily, hanging out with the right friends sounded like a good idea, and it worked most of the time.

Lily usually does give the best advice. And sticking with friends you know you can trust works pretty well.

My advice, however, is usually crap because I've always taken myself out of the situation like a coward. Either that or I end up getting chummy with another person who knows the people that are doing the hazing. I take that saying "The enemy of my enemy is my friend" a little too literal at times.

Nord Ronnoc wrote:

Yesterday, I've found out who was the ringleader behind all of this: some big guy named Michael. Apparently, he got into trouble for telling other people to harass me. If he does this again, then he'll be expelled.

And Lily, hanging out with the right friends sounded like a good idea, and it worked most of the time.

I'm glad.

Ephah wrote:

Heeeeyyyyyyy . . . tw'as my idea first. T_T idea stealers. But thats good and very good. Just . . . .don't stirr up the water onces its stilled kay?

I edited your because I know some friends go to extremes.